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Not everyone will understand your journey. That’s fine. It’s not their journey to make sense of. It’s yours.

Zero Dean

Author | Photographer | CG Artist | Filmmaker

Silent support isn’t supportive

  • “I liked that shop, it’s too bad they closed.”
  • “That was a great website, I wonder why it went offline.”
  • “I really like that artist, I wonder why they don’t make art anymore.”

Silent support isn’t supportive.

Support can be anything from kind words & encouragement, positive feedback, to patronage & purchases. If you like or appreciate something, take the time to express it.

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Saved by criticism

“The trouble with most of us is that we would rather be ruined by praise than saved by criticism.” — Norman Vincent Peale

Be confident enough in yourself to listen to criticism and explore views you don’t necessarily agree with — because those who always agree with you will rarely push you to improve as much as those who don’t.

“A wise person knows that there is something to be learned from everyone.” — Unknown

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Originally Published on: Feb 16, 2016 @ 11:49

The results of your actions speak louder than words

The results of your actions speak louder than words.

You can read a million motivational sayings to pump yourself up — or echo them to others until you’re blue in the face — but that won’t change anything unless you take action and consistently change your behavior.

Don’t just read it or preach it and expect it to make a difference in your life. Knowing something is not enough. Knowing what you should do is not enough. You have to use what you know and take action.

This is the DO in JUST DO IT.

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Originally Published on: Oct 7, 2012 @ 19:16

A sign that someone is being themselves

Do you know how you can tell when someone is likely being themselves? When they don’t always act according to social norms.

Trying to be like anyone or everyone else is not being yourself.

* Of course, this can also be a sign of discomfort or ignorance of local customs. But in many cases, if someone is comfortable being “weird” around you, then they are likely comfortable expressing themselves as they prefer to be vs what society expects.

Updated from a post from 2013

“The problem is Millennials”

“This younger generation is the problem.”

False.

This generation didn’t build the world we live in, previous generations did. If the world is worse now than it was when you were young, that has more to do with past generations than the current one.

Older generations are responsible for the problems & circumstances that younger generations have to contend with – not the other way around.

“Irresponsible” poor people

If you think the majority of people who are poor are poor because they spend irresponsibility, you haven’t done the math on how much most jobs pay vs how much it actually costs to live in the modern world.

Those who make more than they need are far more likely to spend their money irresponsibly than those who don’t. And they generally have far more fun doing it & deal with far less stress afterwards.

It’s one thing to be able to buy things you don’t need, it’s another thing entirely to have to sacrifice the quality of your life do it.