Never stop doing the kinds of things that made you and your partner fall in love with each other in the first place.
Many people make the mistake of no longer furthering their efforts once they achieve what they want. Only to then wonder why they lost what they had.
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Yes, learn from your mistakes, but don’t penalize your current partner for past partners offenses.
Every person you meet has different habits and a different history. The past is not the present.
Give people you meet a chance to demonstrate the type of person they are through their actions not someone else’s.
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- Relations & relationships
- With respect, tolerance, and an open mind…
- Emotional reasoning
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- We are the human race
- Offsite: We don’t see things as they are.
- Offsite: Don’t forget to clean your glasses
- Offsite: ‘Not everyone thinks the way you think’