With our limited perspectives, we often have very little understanding of what other people are truly thinking or what motivated them to act in the way that they did. We only have our interpretation.
“Regardless of whether the outcome of an action is considered “good” or “bad”, everyone does things for reasons they consider reasonable at the time.”
As such, it is important to exercise restraint when one feels the urge to criticize people.
Remember, what one says when they talk about other people reveals a considerable amount about the person doing the talking.
If you must talk about people, talk about what you learned from the experience and use that to teach others how to beware of similar situations.
Let others make up their own mind as to how to use the knowledge and insight you share.
What you observe with other people isn’t always true. But what you learn from experiences with other people can’t be disputed.
We all make mistakes. It’s what we learn from ours and others experiences that’s important, not energy spent criticizing others.
*This is in regard to personal relationships, not evil companies or individuals who exist to simply take advantage of people.
- One less rhinoceros (intentions vs actions & dealing with mean people)
- The justification of everything
- Filling in the blanks
- Losing your shit
- Offsite: What you say when you talk about about other people
- Offsite: No one has ever made himself great by showing how small someone else is.