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Find what you love

December 28, 2020January 22, 2020 by Zero Dean

If someone creates content — whether it’s music, videos, art, comics, or words — and you don’t like it, don’t understand it, or don’t find any value in it, maybe it wasn’t meant for you.

There are over 7.5 billion people on the planet — all with different preferences, opinions & levels of understanding — not everything anyone creates is intended for every single person on the planet.

It is perfectly possible to go in search of what you love in life without disparaging, mocking, or criticizing all the things you discover on your journey that you don’t.

Problem-finding as a sport

January 21, 2020 by Zero Dean

Some treat problem-finding like it’s a sport to win. But finding & highlighting problems is easy. Complaining is easy. Mocking & belittling people and/or their efforts is easy.

What isn’t as easy? Being solution-oriented instead of problem-focused & leading by example — & with love.

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Body language

January 5, 2020 by Zero Dean

Everyone becomes an apparent expert in body language the moment someone does something that suggests something that the person interpreting it wants to see.

The fact is, we often find what we seek – positive or negative – and project what we want to see onto something that would otherwise be neutral or allow for multiple interpretations.

From wisdom to warnings, there are likely a lot of things you see all the time which you ignore – because they’re things “you know”. But if you really knew these things & the potential they have to alter your life – for better or worse – you wouldn’t ignore them.