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Not everyone will understand your journey. That’s fine. It’s not their journey to make sense of. It’s yours.

Zero Dean

Author | Photographer | CG Artist | Filmmaker

Sitting in my car eating lunch

Sitting in my car eating lunch.
Windows are open.

Older man in a car next to mine is on a break from one of the nearby shops. He takes a last puff on his cigarette and tosses it out his window.

Rather than get angry, I simply say, “The ground is not an ashtray.” — He looks over at me. Probably as surprised as I was that I said anything — I continue, “A trash can would be a better place for that.”

He doesn’t say anything.
Just closes his window.
Gets out of his car.

Here it comes, I think. I’m about to get blasted. And then he walks back & picks up his cigarette butt where he flicked it.

And then he walks away.

2020 is full of surprises.

You don’t do it for your critics

No matter what you do or what you create, it is almost inevitable that someone somewhere won’t like it — even if what you’re doing is generous, selfless, or kind.

Always remember that you don’t do what you do for your critics, you do it for the people who find value in it — even if it’s just one person (or yourself).

Criticism is common. Keep going.

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Support what you appreciate

People are often quick to project negative energy towards things they don’t like. Flipping a finger, getting angry, or tapping some keys makes it easy.

Sadly, people putting out positive energy to actively support the things they value & appreciate is far less common.

Be kind.

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