Sometimes not getting exactly what we want exactly when we want it is exactly what we need.
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How you think affects how you feel.
How you feel affects how you live.
How you live affects your life.
Improve how you think to improve how you live.
“The happiness of your life depends upon the quality of your thoughts.” — Marcus Aurelius
“Happiness depends more on the inward disposition of mind than on outward circumstances.” — Benjamin Franklin
Anytime one’s internal state is dependent on external factors, one’s emotional state becomes a slave to circumstances.
A key to lasting happiness (like inner peace and a stress-free life) is in not placing control of one’s happiness in other people’s possession.
If you can’t control it, don’t anchor your emotional state to it.
“Inner Peace begins the moment you choose not to allow another person or event to control your emotions.”
“If you don’t build your own dream someone else will hire you to help build theirs.” — Tony Gaskins Jr.
It’s better to be the indispensable lead of your own life story than a dispensable part of someone else’s.
Remember to live your life by choice not by chance.
“Don’t put the key to your happiness is someone else’s pocket.”
Have a purpose. Set goals. Aim high. And take action.
“When writing the story of your life, don’t let anyone else hold the pen.”
Direct your life. Don’t just drift.
“The amount of satisfaction you get from life depends largely on your own ingenuity, self-sufficiency, and resourcefulness. People who wait around for life to supply their satisfaction usually find boredom instead.” — Dr. William Menninger
One’s perception of the world is a reflection of one’s beliefs. What a person believes to be true is sometimes discovered not to be.
Harboring the belief “I could be wrong” is not only the sign of an open mind, it’s far more conducive to triggering personal growth than “I’m right.” or “This is the one and only way.”
Rather than close the door to additional information, it keeps one’s mind open to additional knowledge and experiences that could impact one’s belief system.
One’s mind is rarely receptive to things it thinks it already knows the answer to.
“I could be wrong” is far more beneficial to one’s belief system than “I’m absolutely right without question.”
Remaining open to new information, new experiences, and new beliefs is essential to personal growth.
You don’t grow in response to what you already know.
The moment you are certain that you know the one and only way is the moment you leave no room to learn that you’re wrong (even if you’re right).
Keep an open mind.
“It is what we think we know already that often prevents us from learning.” — Claude Bernard
Thematically based on a phrase originally published on: Nov 1, 2013 @ 21:05
Excerpt from: Likability. Being liked and unliked.
If you want to reach your full potential, then you must learn to accept yourself for who you are & who you want to be and take personal responsibility for your life and how you feel.
And along the way to self-actualization, you must be prepared to be unpopular. Don’t leave your sense of worth and well-being in the hands of others.
Those who achieve greatness in life don’t let others dictate how they feel about themselves — and neither should you.
Don’t stop working towards a goal just because the path to it isn’t as direct or as easy as you hoped it would be. It is often the lessons one learns on their journey that are exactly what one needs to complete it.
“What we learn to do, we learn by doing.” — Aristotle
Despite expectations and intentions, everyone’s lives are occasionally punctuated with plateaus upon which little appears to happen.
Reaching a plateau in life is simply a sign that in order for things to advance to the next level, either you or something you’re doing must change.
“Change is not merely necessary to life, it is life.” — Alvin Toffler